Comfort with 'Change'
©Arlene R. Taylor PhD
Dictionaries often have very long lists related to defining the word 'change. Here is a sampling:
The act, process, or result of modifying something (an alteration in facial expression)
To cause to be different (an alteration in the spelling of a word)
The replacing of one thing for another as in substitution (an alteration in ownership)
A transition from one state, condition, or phase to another (the passage of seasons or time as in the process of aging)
And then there are all the idioms, including 'to change:'
- Hands - To pass from one owner to another
- One's mind - To alter a previously held opinion
- One's tune – To reverse an original approach, position, or attitude
Change can be discomfiting for many individuals, especially when they perceive little or no control over the events or situations that created the alterations, or perceive a lack of opportunity to provide input. For example:
- Forced relocation for career or occupation (e.g., downsizing, bankruptcy)
- Divorce or separation (especially when desired more by one party)
- A catastrophic event (e.g., flood, hurricane, fire)
- The death of a parent or loved one that turned life upside down
And then there are all the myriad changes that can occur in families, schools, churches, and organizations. Sometime an accumulation of small changes can be as overwhelming as one big change. Even changing something by choice (e.g., going back to school, partnering, changing occupations or residence) can be stressful.
Initiating or participating in change is likely to be more successful when you understand that one’s approach to change may differ dramatically based on brain bent. Following are examples of the way in which individuals might approach change (or their comfort level with change) based on brain bent.
Prioritizing Division |
Envisioning Division
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Individuals with a brain bent in this division may:
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Individuals with a brain bent in this division may:
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Maintaining Division
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Harmonizing Division |
Individuals with a brain bent in this division may:
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Individuals with a brain bent in this division may:
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Managing Change
You can choose to access any function in any portion of your brain to help you respond to or initiate change. To paraphrase the words of Brian Tracy, master change rather than allowing it to master you. And above all, consciously use your brain for success when managing it! When change is necessary or beneficial, access all portions of your cerebrum as necessary to be successful. Alternatively, collaborate with others who have a different brain bent: each of you bringing your giftedness to the table.
Prioritizing Division |
Visualizing Division
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To manage the change process:
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To manage the change process:
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Maintaining Division |
Harmonizing Division
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To manage the change process:
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To manage the change process:
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