Taylor-on-the-Brain Bulletin

Realizations Inc - Arlene's Update March/April 2007

New Article

Dr. Arlene TaylorFrom time to time I invite individuals to write an article that can be posted on my web site. Some have responded. I invite you to browse through the list of guest articles and read those that appeal to you. Please feel free to submit an article for consideration. My thanks to Robert Adams for the most recent contribution entitled: "Rolodex Problems."

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Seminar Opportunities

seminarsPlan ahead for upcoming "Brain Programs" - I only present this special seminar a few times each year. It is preferable to complete the BTSA in advance. Audit rates are available for those who have already taken the BTSA. Check the seminar schedule on my web site for other seminar opportunities.

Friday, March 16, 2007, 9am-4pm
Salem, Oregon
The Brain Program (bring own lunch)
To register, contact Janet Williams at (503) 363-0390 or eastsalemsda@msn.com

Friday, March 23, 2007, 9am-4pm
Spokane, Washington
The Brain Program
To register, contact Kathi Best at (509) 467-5400 or kkbest@comcast.net

Saturday, April 21, 2007, 9am-4pm
St. Helena, California
The Brain Program (bring own lunch)
Note: This Saturday program is by request, so you "don't have to take a day off work."
To register, contact Carrie Begg at (707) 963-1219 or beggc1@ah.org.

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Brain Bender

More stimulation for your cerebral neurons! [Note: If you are receiving the text-only version of this email newsletter, you will need to view the Brain Bender online (see link below).]

 

See Mar/Apr Brain Bender online...

Riddle

According to the old story, how many animals of each kind did Moses take on board the ark?

 

See Jan/Feb Brain Bulletin online...

Brain-Q

By request I am including a puzzle in each Brain Bulletin to provide additional options for brain stimulation. The puzzle rules are similar to those of Sudoku, but the puzzle uses letters of the alphabet rather than numbers. The object is to complete each grid so that every 3-by-3 box (there are 9 such boxes in each puzzle), every row, and every column contain the letters in the puzzle word--used only once.

The puzzle word is a reminder that the cerebrum needs to be exercised on a daily basis: brainjogs

Solutions are available on my web site. [Note: If you are receiving the text-only version of the email newsletter, you will need to view the Brain-Q puzzle online.]

Brain Q solution for Jan/Feb 2007...

PowerPoint Slides

PowerPoint slides for "Affirmation--the Power of Positive" are now available on my web site.

When you click the link below, the slideshow will open in a new window. Click with your mouse or use your arrow keys to navigate through the slides.

View PowerPoint slides online...

Questions & Answers

Q. I've always found some tasks harder to accomplish than others. So do my children. But I'm determined they will be able to do everything well, so I make them practice specific tasks every day for a couple of hours. When they complain and don't do well I typically restrict all their privileges after school and on the weekends. What can I do to make them cooperate with my program?

A. At the risk of your brain choosing to become upset with my response, I recommend that you Stop it, now! By insisting your children spend hours each day on tasks that are difficult for their brains to accomplish, you may ruin your relationship with them (if it's not already gone down that road). In addition, you risk contributing to a variety of potentially negative outcomes, including:

  • Exhausting their brains so they barely have energy for the tasks they enjoy
  • Increasing the likelihood they may develop obsessive-compulsive behaviors in order to force themselves to complete tasks that are exhausting for their brains
  • Having them develop a lifestyle that is 180 degrees different from the way you are raising them (and, either way, 180 degrees from dysfunctional is still dysfunctional)
  • Watching them become anxious or discouraged or depressed and turning to substances or other addictive behaviors that will alter their neurochemistry so they don't feel so bad
  • Choosing to underachieve in life because of their history of failure while trying hard to excel in tasks that are energy-intensive for their brains
  • Developing non-optimum levels of self-esteem and feeling bad about themselves because they never are able to meet your expectations

Some tasks will be much more energy-intensive based on individual brain function. I do not know the ages of your children, but the "work" of children is "play." It doesn't sound like they are getting to do much playing. One researcher told me that society has it backwards in terms of brain function, pushing people to improve in areas that are energy intensive for their brains. When you spend your time and energy doing tasks that are energy-exhausting for the brain you can improve your skill level from poor to mediocre. When you spend that time and energy honing skills that are a match with your brain's own built-in-advantage, you can improve your competence from mediocre to outstanding.

I submit that the purpose of formal education is to build skills throughout the brain. Outside of that arena, however, I recommend that you discover what your children find interesting and help them have fun "playing" as they learn.

To some degree you hold the happiness, health, and well-being of your children in your hands. Yes, they can re-parent themselves after they get out from underneath your thumb. That is, they can treat themselves in adulthood as they would have liked to be treated during childhood had their parents been wiser, but it is a difficult process. They have unique brains. Each one is unlike any other on the planet. Observe them, play with them. Help them to identify a career that matches what their brains do with energy efficiency. It will still take work on their part to develop the requisite skills, but they will likely feel good about themselves, develop optimum levels of self-esteem, and enjoy using their innate talents to benefit themselves and others. It's your choice!

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News Note

Frequently people ask if I have suggestions for helping them keep their mind active. I usually do have some suggestions (e.g., browse through Selected Brain Facts on my web site, practice Brain Benders, complete Sudoku puzzles, and so on).

Here is another suggestion: Kristin Einberger and Janelle Sellick have just written a book entitled "Strengthen Your Mind--Activities for People with Early Memory Loss." It is a collection of short, one-page worksheets that you can complete by yourself or with others. "But I don't have early memory loss," you say. Great! This book can help retard its onset!

Available from Amazon.com...

Point to Ponder

People often say that motivation doesn't last. Well, neither does bathing--that's why we recommend it daily. --Zig Ziglar

From time to time I've had a similar thought about brain-function information and about the personal journey to discover one's own innate giftedness. To paraphrase, attending one seminar or reading one book about brain function doesn't usually last. It has been my observation that people who absorb the information and run with it, who put in the discovery work, who make practical applications, and who really thrive are the ones who do something every day--however small--to keep themselves motivated and to affirm who they are innately. They are the ones who return to audit The Brain Program and who make a point to attend other brain-function seminars. Becoming the person you were designed to be rarely happens automatically. So, when did you take your last brain-function bath?

 

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