New Article
Holidays
trigger memories. The good news is that recall of memories
exercises the brain. The bad news is that all recall may not
be sugar, spice, and everything nice. Either way, my new article
Memory Busters or Boosters addresses recall of memories
and its importance in life.
Read
Memory Busters or Boosters here...
Seminar Opportunities
December
2, 2005. San Anselmo, California. Friday 7:00-9:00pm.
Taylor’s topic: Cellular
Memory – Subconscious Triggers for Behavior.
Contact Jocelyn Olivier at (415) 258-0402. Website www.alivewell.com
December 6, 2005. Yountville, California.
Taylor’s topic is: Age-Proof
Your Brain. Contact Davy Mesnard at (707) 944-2994.
December 30, 2005. Hyatt Regency Monterey Resort.
Spiritual Renaissance Retreat. Friday, 10:45 am to 12:00 noon.
Taylor’s topic: Downshifting—A
Natural Brain Phenomenon. Contact John or
Joan Hughson to register at phone (707) 965-7297 or Fax (707)
965-6774, or e-mail to: jhughson@puc.edu
Upcoming Brain
Programs in the Napa Valley:
- February 17, 2006. Friday, 9-5, St. Helena, California.
The Brain Program, one-day option
held at the Women’s Center. Register with Carrie at
(707) 963-1912 or e-mail to: beggc1@ah.org.
- March 10-11, 2006. Friday 2pm through Saturday
4pm. The Brain Program,
two-day option held at the St. Helena Center for Health.
Phone (800) 358-9195 or (707) 963-6365 to register, or e-mail
to: shuhealth@ah.org.
Plan ahead to attend a Brain
Program Alumni in 2006. Content includes
brain-function updates and practical information on the brain
and male-female differences (by request), and time for Q&A.
- June 16-17, 2006. Two-day format at The St. Helena
Center for Health. Phone (800) 358-9195 or (707)
963-6365; or e-mail to: shuhealth@ah.org.
- June 30, 2006. One-day format at The Women’s
Center of St. Helena Hospital. Phone (707) 963-1912
or e-mail to: beggc1@ah.org.
View
current speaking schedule...
Brain Bender
More
stimulation for your cerebral neurons!
Riddle
The more you take, the more you leave behind. What
are they?
DVD
When I was invited
to join the Professional Speakers Bureau International
by Thomas A. Lisk, BA, LHD, CSE (founder/CEO), he asked me
for a DVD that prospective clients could view. To prepare
the DVD, I turned to David and Joy Pippenger. I first met
this delightful couple on a minicruise where I was presenting
a lecture on brain function at the request of Greg and Brenda
Im, who had hired the Pippengers to record the experience
on video. This was fortunate for me!
The result of their work is the DVD you can now view on my
web site. Feel free to forward it on to other interested viewers.
Contact information:
David Pippenger
HandCrafted Media
Phone (719) 481-8200
E-mail: david@handcraftedmedia.net
View
DVD...
News Notes
Studies
have shown that reading and listening to stories promote active
mental picturing, a skill that is critical to problem solving
and creativity. Most people enjoy stories, especially the
male brain. David Pippenger, the same person who prepared
my new DVD, is author of A Raft Around the Corner.
This book is a collection of stories that can help you keep
going when things aren’t going well, that can be retold
when things get better, and that can be recalled the next
time things aren’t going well. Each has its genesis
in a real happening, provides food for thought, and can help
you view things in a new way. They offer humor in the process.
Of course I’m biased--I got to write the foreword! Order
several copies (the book is available on www.Amazon.com) and
use them as gifts.
Available
on www.Amazon.com...
Frequently Asked Questions
Q.
As a speaker I feel like I’m giving up some of my privacy
when answering the myriad questions posed to me. How do you
handle personal questions?
A. Being asked personal questions can be frustrating. It
often depends on how curious people are whether they ask you
directly, ask someone behind your back, or persist in trying
to obtain an answer from you when one is not forthcoming.
My belief is that you do not OWE people an answer simply because
they choose to ask a question. In childhood many people were
socialized to answer any and every question put to them by
an adult. Consequently in adulthood, they tend to answer automatically
or feel guilty if they don't answer every question. We REALLY
need to get past that. As my preacher-father used to say,
"The 11th commandment is, You shall not explain."
What can you do? Try a variety of techniques. Deflect unwanted
questions with humor. Brainstorm in advance how to respond
neutrally without really answering the question. Become adept
at changing the subject. If none of those techniques work,
and you truly do not want to answer the question, just say
"I prefer not to discuss that topic."
Actually, you probably would have difficulty believing some
of the questions seminar participants have asked me--most
of which are none of their business, although that hasn’t
stopped them from asking! For example:
Question: Since you are a speaker I suppose you’ll be
having a face lift one of these days to get rid of some of
those wrinkles, right?
Response: Wrong. I get a face lift every time I smile or laugh,
and your question just triggered a laugh.
Question: Are you really wearing makeup?
Response: I was last time I checked, and that was when the
seminar began. Thanks for noticing.
Question: How old are you?
Response: Depends on what age you are talking about. Biologically
and psychologically I’m younger than I am chronologically....
Question: No, really, how old are you?
Response: As old as I really am.
Question: How come you're wearing a glitzy pin on your jacket?
Response: Because I enjoy wearing glitzy pins. In fact I collect
them!
Question: Do you believe in sex at your age?
Response: I was unaware that sex was a belief system.
Question: Just what do you do at holidays?
Response: I just be--wherever I can avoid questions.
And so it goes...
Visit FAQ online...
Selected Brain Facts
Checkout
the Selected Brain Facts section (a web site resource).
Beg, borrow, or purchase some of the books mentioned. Take
advantage of your age-proofing 30 minutes per day of challenging
mental exercise while learning more about the brain and its
amazing functions.
Visit
Selected Brain Facts...
Cruise with Arlene (host #42316)
November
9-17, 2006. Join Arlene for ten educational days!
This "cruise into history" begins in Athens, Greece
and ends in Nice, France. It includes Rome, Naples, Pompeii,
Malta, Sicily, and Corinth as it follows the historical route
of "Paul's Fourth Missionary Journey." Several pre-
and post-tours are also available. The trip is sponsored by
Educational Opportunities Tours (EOT), the same company
that planned the Oberammergau Passion-Play tour in 2000 and
the tour to Ireland in 2004.
Stimulate your brain (e.g., grow dendrites on your neurons)
through travel and informal discussions about brain function.
Ask about Continuing Education credit for nurses (CA BRN CE
Provider #08580) and MFTs/LCSWs (CA BBS CE Provider #37).
Register early with EOT to secure your reservation.
Cruise
information...
Point to Ponder
Don’t let’s ask for the moon. We
have the stars! –-Betty Davis in Now
Voyager
Sometimes people say, after they've identified specifics
about their own brain function, "but I wish I were such-and-such
instead. Then I could do such-and-such more easily."
I regret that attitude and perception. Dealing effectively
with the cards you were dealt can be so much more efficacious
in the long term. Asking for the moon, so to speak, wastes
time and energy. An old sea captain once said that while the
moon looks rather pretty and can be helpful as a light source,
you need the stars for navigation--stars are indispensable.
In one sense, you already HAVE the stars. You have your own
unique brain with its built-in advantage. Living authentically
is its own reward. Avoid wishing for what you don't have.
Navigate successfully through life with what you do have:
the real you!
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