Taylor-on-the-Brain Bulletin
Realizations Inc - Arlene's Update

November/December 2005

New Article

Dr. Arlene TaylorHolidays trigger memories. The good news is that recall of memories exercises the brain. The bad news is that all recall may not be sugar, spice, and everything nice. Either way, my new article Memory Busters or Boosters addresses recall of memories and its importance in life.

 

Read Memory Busters or Boosters here...


Seminar Opportunities

seminarsDecember 2, 2005. San Anselmo, California. Friday 7:00-9:00pm. Taylor’s topic: Cellular Memory – Subconscious Triggers for Behavior. Contact Jocelyn Olivier at (415) 258-0402. Website www.alivewell.com

December 6, 2005. Yountville, California. Taylor’s topic is: Age-Proof Your Brain. Contact Davy Mesnard at (707) 944-2994.

December 30, 2005. Hyatt Regency Monterey Resort. Spiritual Renaissance Retreat. Friday, 10:45 am to 12:00 noon. Taylor’s topic: Downshifting—A Natural Brain Phenomenon. Contact John or Joan Hughson to register at phone (707) 965-7297 or Fax (707) 965-6774, or e-mail to: jhughson@puc.edu

Upcoming Brain Programs in the Napa Valley:

  • February 17, 2006. Friday, 9-5, St. Helena, California. The Brain Program, one-day option held at the Women’s Center. Register with Carrie at (707) 963-1912 or e-mail to: beggc1@ah.org.
  • March 10-11, 2006. Friday 2pm through Saturday 4pm. The Brain Program, two-day option held at the St. Helena Center for Health. Phone (800) 358-9195 or (707) 963-6365 to register, or e-mail to: shuhealth@ah.org.

Plan ahead to attend a Brain Program Alumni in 2006. Content includes brain-function updates and practical information on the brain and male-female differences (by request), and time for Q&A.

  • June 16-17, 2006. Two-day format at The St. Helena Center for Health. Phone (800) 358-9195 or (707) 963-6365; or e-mail to: shuhealth@ah.org.
  • June 30, 2006. One-day format at The Women’s Center of St. Helena Hospital. Phone (707) 963-1912 or e-mail to: beggc1@ah.org.

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Brain Bender

brain benderMore stimulation for your cerebral neurons!

 

 


Riddle

The more you take, the more you leave behind. What are they?

 


DVD

When I was invited to join the Professional Speakers Bureau International by Thomas A. Lisk, BA, LHD, CSE (founder/CEO), he asked me for a DVD that prospective clients could view. To prepare the DVD, I turned to David and Joy Pippenger. I first met this delightful couple on a minicruise where I was presenting a lecture on brain function at the request of Greg and Brenda Im, who had hired the Pippengers to record the experience on video. This was fortunate for me!

The result of their work is the DVD you can now view on my web site. Feel free to forward it on to other interested viewers. Contact information:

David Pippenger
HandCrafted Media
Phone (719) 481-8200
E-mail: david@handcraftedmedia.net

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News Notes

bookStudies have shown that reading and listening to stories promote active mental picturing, a skill that is critical to problem solving and creativity. Most people enjoy stories, especially the male brain. David Pippenger, the same person who prepared my new DVD, is author of A Raft Around the Corner.

This book is a collection of stories that can help you keep going when things aren’t going well, that can be retold when things get better, and that can be recalled the next time things aren’t going well. Each has its genesis in a real happening, provides food for thought, and can help you view things in a new way. They offer humor in the process. Of course I’m biased--I got to write the foreword! Order several copies (the book is available on www.Amazon.com) and use them as gifts.

Available on www.Amazon.com...


Frequently Asked Questions

Q. As a speaker I feel like I’m giving up some of my privacy when answering the myriad questions posed to me. How do you handle personal questions?

A. Being asked personal questions can be frustrating. It often depends on how curious people are whether they ask you directly, ask someone behind your back, or persist in trying to obtain an answer from you when one is not forthcoming. My belief is that you do not OWE people an answer simply because they choose to ask a question. In childhood many people were socialized to answer any and every question put to them by an adult. Consequently in adulthood, they tend to answer automatically or feel guilty if they don't answer every question. We REALLY need to get past that. As my preacher-father used to say, "The 11th commandment is, You shall not explain."

What can you do? Try a variety of techniques. Deflect unwanted questions with humor. Brainstorm in advance how to respond neutrally without really answering the question. Become adept at changing the subject. If none of those techniques work, and you truly do not want to answer the question, just say "I prefer not to discuss that topic."

Actually, you probably would have difficulty believing some of the questions seminar participants have asked me--most of which are none of their business, although that hasn’t stopped them from asking! For example:

Question: Since you are a speaker I suppose you’ll be having a face lift one of these days to get rid of some of those wrinkles, right?
Response: Wrong. I get a face lift every time I smile or laugh, and your question just triggered a laugh.

Question: Are you really wearing makeup?
Response: I was last time I checked, and that was when the seminar began. Thanks for noticing.

Question: How old are you?
Response: Depends on what age you are talking about. Biologically and psychologically I’m younger than I am chronologically....

Question: No, really, how old are you?
Response: As old as I really am.

Question: How come you're wearing a glitzy pin on your jacket?
Response: Because I enjoy wearing glitzy pins. In fact I collect them!

Question: Do you believe in sex at your age?
Response: I was unaware that sex was a belief system.

Question: Just what do you do at holidays?
Response: I just be--wherever I can avoid questions.

And so it goes...

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Selected Brain Facts

brain factsCheckout the Selected Brain Facts section (a web site resource). Beg, borrow, or purchase some of the books mentioned. Take advantage of your age-proofing 30 minutes per day of challenging mental exercise while learning more about the brain and its amazing functions.

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Cruise with Arlene (host #42316)

cruise 2006November 9-17, 2006. Join Arlene for ten educational days! This "cruise into history" begins in Athens, Greece and ends in Nice, France. It includes Rome, Naples, Pompeii, Malta, Sicily, and Corinth as it follows the historical route of "Paul's Fourth Missionary Journey." Several pre- and post-tours are also available. The trip is sponsored by Educational Opportunities Tours (EOT), the same company that planned the Oberammergau Passion-Play tour in 2000 and the tour to Ireland in 2004.

Stimulate your brain (e.g., grow dendrites on your neurons) through travel and informal discussions about brain function. Ask about Continuing Education credit for nurses (CA BRN CE Provider #08580) and MFTs/LCSWs (CA BBS CE Provider #37). Register early with EOT to secure your reservation.

Cruise information...


Point to Ponder

Don’t let’s ask for the moon. We have the stars! –-Betty Davis in Now Voyager

Sometimes people say, after they've identified specifics about their own brain function, "but I wish I were such-and-such instead. Then I could do such-and-such more easily." I regret that attitude and perception. Dealing effectively with the cards you were dealt can be so much more efficacious in the long term. Asking for the moon, so to speak, wastes time and energy. An old sea captain once said that while the moon looks rather pretty and can be helpful as a light source, you need the stars for navigation--stars are indispensable. In one sense, you already HAVE the stars. You have your own unique brain with its built-in advantage. Living authentically is its own reward. Avoid wishing for what you don't have. Navigate successfully through life with what you do have: the real you!


 

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