New Article
Some
of you know that I began my career as a registered nurse.
Recently, in preparation for nurses’ week, I was asked
to write a short piece about a personal event related to my
student-nurse days. It was interesting to search my memory
for an incident. I hope you enjoy what I recalled in To
Make a Difference.
Read
To Make a Difference here...
Cruise - EOT
November
9 , 2006. Sponsored by Educational Opportunities Tours.
Base price from JFK airport is $2598. This “cruise
into history” begins in Athens, Greece. It includes
Rome, Naples, Pompeii, Malta, Sicily, and Corinth as it follows
the route of “Paul’s Fourth Missionary Journey.”
Some of you may recall that EOT is the company that took
us to the Oberammergau Passion Play in 2000, and toured us
through Ireland in 2004.
Join me (host #42316) for ten educational days. We'll have
fun talking about brain function in Greece and Italy. Register
now as some discounts may apply!
Cruise
information...
Seminar Opportunities
July
29, 2005, Friday, 9-5, St. Helena, California. Join
me for The Brain
Program at the Women’s Center. Two additional
programs have been added this year by popular demand (July
29 and October 14). Register early and complete your Benziger
Thinking Styles Assessment (BTSA)
well in advance. Phone (707) 963-1912 or e-mail Carrie at
beggc1@ah.org.
August 1-2, 2005, Monday and Tuesday, 9-12, Purvis,
Mississippi. Teachers’ Convention at Bass Memorial
Academy. My topic is: Learning
and the Brain.
August 3, 2005, Tuesday, 9-4, Scottsdale, Arizona.
Teachers’ Convention. My topic is: Learning
and the Brain.
Plan ahead for September:
September 17, 2005, Saturday, 9-5, Victoria, BC,
Canada. Meet me in Canada for The
Brain Program. Register early. The BTSA
needs to be completed in advance. If you have attended The
Brain Program previously, you may audit the seminar for
a nominal fee. Get a refresher! Register with Tim Crawford:
(250) 721-3982, timcrawford@shaw.ca
September 18, 2005, Sunday, 10-1, Victoria, BC, Canada.
He Said--She
Said - Gender at Home and at Work. This is one of
my most popular seminars. Understanding more about male-female
differences doesn’t remove the differences, but it can
diminish a tendency to take things personally, reduce frustration,
and improve relationships--and it can be fun! Bring your spouse,
partner, or friend. They’ll be glad you did! Register
with Tim Crawford: (250) 721-3982, timcrawford@shaw.ca
View current
speaking schedule...
Frequently Asked Questions
Q.
Recently I’ve felt very tired after spending time with
a specific individual. Is it possible for this person to impact
my energy levels?
A. Yes, others can and do impact your energy levels, even
as you impact theirs. The type of energy people generate can
be positive, neutral, or negative. Being around negative energy
is draining.
Cells in the heart and the brain generate electromagnetic
energy that can be detected strongly within three feet of
the body and that can extend out for 12-15 feet. If the individual
is exhibiting functional behaviors and thinking positive thoughts,
the electromagnetic energy will tend to be positive. If the
individual is exhibiting non-functional behaviors (e.g., abusive,
critical, judgmental, coercive, shaming) and thinking negative
thoughts, the electromagnetic energy released will tend to
influence the atmosphere in a negative manner.
A chapter in my latest book, MindWaves,
contains strategies to help you learn how to quickly and easily
evaluate energy drain. Whenever possible I choose to spend
time with individuals who are generating positive energy.
Of course that also means that I have an obligation to keep
my thoughts and mindset positive so I contribute positive
energy to the environment.
You always give up something to get something (and the bottom
line is energy). Spending time with individuals who have a
similar brain lead may require less energy because you are,
in effect, speaking the same brain language. Associating with
those whose brain lead is different from yours may require
additional energy as you “translate” back and
forth. The differences can be stimulating, however, and can
make the energy trade-off more than worth while.
Access my responses to other questions in the FAQ
section of my web site.
Frequently Asked
Questions Online...
Selected Brain Facts
Check
the updated Selected Brain Facts. There are several
references to Family-of-origin Work in the Personal
Growth and the Brain topic. Beg, borrow, or
purchase some of the books mentioned. Take advantage of your
age-proofing 30 minutes per day of challenging mental
exercise while learning more about the brain and its
amazing functions.
View
Selected Brain Facts...
Brain Bender
More
stimulation for your cerebral neurons!
Riddle
What can pass in front of the sun without making a shadow?
News Note
My
book MindWaves,
coauthored by Dr. Eugene Brewer, contains excerpts from two
of my most popular seminars: The
Brain Program and Male-Female
Differences. Written in an easy-reading style (thanks
in part to Michelle Nash), it can serve as an appetizer for
people who are beginning to explore these topics. As the late
Roy Drusky, star of the Grand Ole Opry, put it: It helps simplify
the many complexities of your amazing brain!
MindWaves also discusses how to increase your awareness
of the way in which you expend energy. Nothing in life is
free. You always give up something to get something. Since
the bottom-line medium of exchange is energy, learning to
evaluate your relative energy expenditures (e.g., people,
activities, tasks) can be very helpful. You may want to consider
purchasing several copies to share with family and friends.
Take advantage of the special price during this July-August
promotion: $12, plus postage. Just write that price on the
order form when you send it.
Open
Order Form...
Point to Ponder
We should not let our fears hold us back from pursuing
our hopes. --John F. Kennedy
This quote fits right in with Susan Jeffers’ book entitled
Feel the Fear and Do it Anyway. Every functional
human brain can and has experienced fear. Sometimes the fear
is actual and valid, and sometimes it is imaginary and unhelpful.
If you recognize that your thoughts are fearful, ask yourself
some questions and then pay attention to your thoughts in
response. Here are some suggestions:
- What do you fear? Is the fear real and valid? If yes,
what is the worst thing that could happen?
- What is the probability that the worst thing will happen?
Can you do anything about it? If yes, take appropriate action
related to the actual danger.
If you recognize your thoughts are related to imaginary fears,
realize that negative thinking is unlikely to improve the
odds and can contribute to illness. Change the way you think.
Recall a happy memory or find something to laugh about. Fear
and laughter find it difficult to co-exist.
|